Christmas: A Time for Unity Across Distances

By Dr. Masimba Mavaza

Christmas is a time of love, laughter, and togetherness.

For many, it’s a day to reconnect with family and friends, share stories, and make new memories.

But with migration and distance pulling loved ones apart, Christmas can also be a bittersweet reminder of those who can’t be there in person.

Yet, even with physical distance, families are finding ways to come together on Christmas Day.

Video calls have become a lifeline, bridging the gap between loved ones across countries and continents.

Virtual Gatherings

The Kandaya family, spread across three continents, gathers virtually every Christmas.

“It’s not the same as being there in person,” says mum, Sophie, “but seeing everyone’s faces and sharing a virtual meal together keeps us connected.”

In Zimbabwe, many families use WhatsApp video calls to connect with their loved ones in the UK.

“We sing carols together, share stories, and even exchange gifts virtually,” says daughter, Tashinga.

Christmas can be a time to meet new friends and make new families, says Andrew, passionately called AJ.

Physical Reunions

For some, Christmas is a time to make the journey home.

The Nguyis, a family split between Australia and Zimbabwe, reunite every Christmas in Harare.

“It’s a big affair,” says dad, John. “We cook, laugh, and catch up on each other’s lives. It’s time to recharge and refocus.”

In the UK, the Tarasana family hosts a Christmas gathering for relatives from across Europe.

“It’s a chance for the kids to meet their cousins and have some festive fun,” says Munya.

Christmas gatherings have a way of transporting us back to cherished memories. The smell of grandma’s cooking, the sound of carols playing, the feel of warm hugs – it’s a sensory experience that reignites nostalgia.

For many, Christmas is a time to relive fond moments.

“My grandmother used to make the most amazing Christmas pudding,” recalls Emily, a Zimbabwean expat in the US.

“Now, we gather at my aunt’s place, and she teaches us how to make it. It’s a tradition that keeps her memory alive.”

Extinguishing Distance, Igniting Memories

These gatherings extinguish the ache of distance, replacing it with laughter, love, and new memories.

They’re a reminder that even when we’re apart, our loved ones are just a call or a journey away.

Linda Chinokopota flew from mainland Europe to join the families in England.

It was a wonderful time meeting Carwin and Tonde Mungofa, dishing out presents and the children melting in joy.

There is comfort in technology.

As the world becomes increasingly interconnected, families are finding creative ways to bridge the gap.

Video calls, social media, and physical gatherings – whatever the means, Christmas is a time to prioritize family and unity.

Physical Reunions

For some, Christmas is a time to make the journey home.

The Shumba family, split between the United Kingdom and Zimbabwe, reunites every Christmas in Harare.

“It’s a big affair,” says dad, Ivy. “We cook, laugh, and catch up on each other’s lives. It’s time to recharge and refocus.”

Despite distance, Christmas remains a day when families come together, whether virtually or physically.

It’s a testament to the power of love and connection.

As the world becomes increasingly interconnected, families are finding creative ways to bridge the gap.

Video calls, social media, and physical gatherings – whatever the means, Christmas is a time to prioritize family and unity.

This year, we have celebrated the families united by distance and the love that brings them together on Christmas Day.

Christmas can be a tough time when you’re missing loved ones who’ve passed away. It’s like a wave of nostalgia hits, and suddenly, the empty seats at the table feel heavier.

Some people find comfort in traditions – lighting a candle, sharing stories, or doing something the person loved.

Others might visit their graves or have a quiet moment to themselves.

But above all this, Christmas just tells us Christ was born, and we must unite as a family.

Have a Happy New Year.